ST.A Silent Tragedy: The Sudden Loss of a Young Footballer and a Message That Could Save Lives
The partner of former North Melbourne forward Phoenix Spicer has spoken publicly for the first time about the circumstances surrounding the sudden and devastating loss of the young footballer, revealing that he passed away due to an unexpected brain aneurysm. He was just 23 years old.
Phoenix Spicer’s passing in early January sent shockwaves through the Australian football community. A talented and hardworking player, his journey through the elite levels of the game was marked by determination, cultural pride, and quiet resilience. Those who knew him describe a young man who carried himself with humility and warmth, earning the respect of teammates and coaches alike.
His partner, Ky-ya Nicholson Ward, has chosen to share their story not for attention, but out of a desire to raise awareness. In a heartfelt message, she explained that Phoenix showed no obvious warning signs and never complained of feeling unwell. The loss, she says, was sudden and deeply traumatic, leaving her and his loved ones struggling to comprehend how someone so young and active could be taken so unexpectedly.
Her message carries a simple but powerful reminder: listen to your body and seek medical advice when something feels wrong, even if the signs seem minor or unclear. Brain aneurysms, while rare, can occur without warning and affect people of all ages. By speaking openly, she hopes others might take that extra step to look after their health and, in doing so, protect themselves and their families from similar heartbreak.
The partner of North Melbourne forward Phoenix Spicer, who tragically passed away earlier this month, has revealed that the 23-year-old died as a result of a sudden brain aneurysm
Spicer was drafted to North Melbourne from South Australia in the 2020 National Draft and went on to play 12 AFL games for the Kangaroos. Though his time at the top level was relatively brief, his impact extended beyond the field. After being delisted at the end of the 2023 season, he continued his football career with Footscray, playing in the VFL and remaining committed to his development and love for the game.
Tributes have poured in from across the football world. North Melbourne president Sonja Hood described Phoenix as a popular and well-liked member of the playing group, offering condolences to his family and friends during an incredibly difficult time. The Western Bulldogs also released a statement expressing their deepest sympathies and asking for privacy for those grieving.
Beyond football, Phoenix Spicer was a proud Nunggubuyu man from Numbulwar, a remote community in east Arnhem Land in the Northern Territory. He remained deeply connected to his culture and heritage. In 2023, he played a meaningful role in helping design North Melbourne’s Sir Doug Nicholls Round guernsey, a design that honoured the totems of the club’s First Nations players. Phoenix was represented by the barramundi, a symbol of strength and connection.
As the community continues to mourn, his partner’s words stand as a lasting legacy: a reminder of life’s fragility, the importance of health awareness, and the value of compassion over speculation. In sharing her pain, she has offered others a chance to pause, reflect, and perhaps take steps that could one day make all the difference.
Spicer played 12 AFL games for North Melbourne before being delisted at the end of the 2023 season
