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ST.A Mother’s Battle: The Strength to Fight, The Hope to Live

A Story of Unbreakable Bond

In the quiet moments of their lives, there are bonds so deep that they transcend words. The love between a mother and her child is one of these bonds. It is a connection built on trust, care, and the promise of always being there, no matter what. For one little boy, that bond is the foundation of his entire world—his mother, the woman who gave him life, taught him love, and showed him the beauty of the world around him, is now fighting a battle that is beyond any child’s comprehension.

Meet this beautiful woman in the photo above—her name is Emily, and she’s the heart of her family. She has always been the one to nurture and protect, to laugh and to heal. Her son, Jacob, a bright-eyed 10-year-old boy, has always admired his mother for her strength. She was his hero, his protector, the one he could always count on. But now, Emily’s strength is being tested in a way no mother should ever have to face.

A Life Altered by Cancer

The news came without warning, as life often does. Emily was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer, a diagnosis that shook her to the core and sent ripples through her family. The doctors said it was a rare form, aggressive and relentless. The disease was spreading rapidly, and treatments were becoming more difficult with each passing day.

At first, Emily tried to hide the pain from her son. She didn’t want him to see her weak, to know how much she was struggling. She fought in silence, wearing a brave face for Jacob. She smiled through the sleepless nights, through the endless rounds of chemotherapy, through the pain that often left her breathless. But the toll of the battle was becoming more evident, and it was clear that this fight wasn’t just hers—it was their fight, together.

Despite her exhaustion, Emily never let her son see her fall apart. She held on, with every ounce of strength she could muster, because she knew that Jacob needed her. He was her reason for fighting. But even the strongest fighters need help. Even the fiercest warriors need the light of hope to guide them through the darkest battles.

A Son’s Request: Hope and Strength

Jacob, with his bright smile and innocent eyes, had always believed in the impossible. But as his mother’s health declined, he began to understand the weight of her fight. One day, sitting by her bedside, he looked up at her with a mixture of love and concern, and he spoke words that would echo in both of their hearts forever.

“Mom, you’ve always fought for me. Now, it’s my turn to fight for you.”

He didn’t fully understand the depth of her illness, but he understood one thing: his mother needed hope. She needed the strength to keep going. And if that meant he had to become her source of strength, then he would do it. With the innocence only a child could have, Jacob made a simple request to the world: “She needs hope from you.”

Emily’s heart swelled with love for her son. In that moment, she realized that, even though she was the one battling cancer, Jacob had his own battle to face—one that involved finding the strength to watch his mother fight, and to offer his own light in the darkness.

A Mother’s Strength, A Child’s Hope

In the months that followed, Emily continued to battle cancer with everything she had, but Jacob’s hope was a lifeline for her. Every day, he would ask about her treatments, about how she was feeling, about how he could help. His presence was a constant reminder to Emily that she wasn’t alone, and that her fight meant something—because it meant the world to him.

She saw him grow stronger in his own way, learning the value of compassion, of resilience, and of never giving up. Emily taught Jacob that even in the most difficult times, love could conquer fear. And Jacob, in turn, reminded her every day that life was worth fighting for—because it was a life they would share together.

With each passing day, Emily felt her strength returning, not just from the treatments or the doctors, but from the love and support of her son. Jacob became her motivation, her reason to wake up each day and keep fighting. And through it all, he never stopped believing in her. His belief became her belief.

Moments of Joy Amidst the Struggle

Through the pain and the uncertainty, there were moments of joy. Small victories that felt bigger than anything they had experienced before. There were days when Emily would smile at Jacob’s antics, his jokes that made her laugh even when she felt like crying. There were days when Jacob would hold her hand and reassure her, saying, “We’re going to get through this, Mom. I know we are.”

The simple act of sharing a meal, like in the photo above, became a precious moment. Emily had always fed her son with love, nurturing him with the care and attention that only a mother could provide. Now, it was Jacob’s turn to feed her, to give her the nourishment she so desperately needed—not just physically, but emotionally and spiritually.

When she saw the joy in Jacob’s eyes, she was reminded that there was still so much to live for. She wasn’t just fighting for herself; she was fighting for him, for their future, for the memories they had yet to make. Emily and Jacob held onto each other, finding comfort in the simple things—the laughter, the hugs, the shared moments of peace amidst the chaos of their lives.

The Power of Prayer and Love

As Emily’s battle continued, the community around them began to rally in support. People from all walks of life offered prayers, words of encouragement, and acts of kindness. Emily and Jacob were surrounded by a network of love, a love so strong that it created an unbreakable barrier against the darkness of disease.

Jacob’s request for hope was answered in ways they never imagined. The prayers of friends, family, and even strangers lifted them both. Emily found herself comforted not only by the love of her family but by the hope of others who believed in her strength.

This collective energy became a powerful force, one that fueled Emily’s will to fight even when she felt like giving up. She knew that she was surrounded by people who loved her, who believed in her, and who were rooting for her to win this battle. It was a reminder that no one fights alone—not when love and hope are at the center of the fight.

A Future Full of Possibilities

Despite the challenges that lay ahead, Emily and Jacob continued to move forward with hope in their hearts. Emily knew that no matter what happened, she would always have Jacob by her side. And Jacob knew that no matter how difficult the road was, he would never stop fighting for his mom.

Their bond, tested by the harshest of circumstances, had only grown stronger. Every day, they fought together, side by side. And as long as they had each other, there was always hope.

As Emily looked at her son, she knew that no matter what the future held, she had already been given the greatest gift: the love and strength of her child. And with that love, anything was possible.

A Mother’s Promise, A Son’s Love

Emily made a promise to Jacob—one that she would carry with her no matter what happened. She promised to keep fighting for him, to keep holding onto the hope that their lives would one day return to normal. And Jacob made his own promise: to never stop believing in his mother, to never give up on her, and to always hold her hand through the hardest moments.

Their journey was far from over, but one thing was clear: love would carry them through. Together, they would face whatever came their way, armed with the strength of their bond, the power of prayer, and the unshakeable belief that no matter how hard life gets, there is always hope.

Little girl born at 24 weeks reunites with nurses who cared for her in the NICU

Babies born prematurely fight their tiny uphill battles, but they aren’t alone. Denver Fox affiliate KDVR recently reported a story of one of those babies, now a little girl, who had the opportunity to meet the NICU nurses who cared for her in the early days of that battle. 

Zoey was born at 24 weeks and 5 days, “extremely unexpectedly,” according to her mom. She was tiny, weighing in at just 1 pound 9 ounces. And like many babies, she faced many issues in her early life, which can sometimes be due to complications of being so tiny – brain bleeds, blood transfusions, seizures, and cerebral palsy. Her mom remembers those 124 days as “extremely scary and traumatic,” but she also remembered the team of nurses that got Zoey – and her mother – through those difficult times. Many NICU nurses spend their time and energy caring for their very small and delicate patients. While they see them grow and make gains, and hopefully eventually “graduate” from the NICU, don’t always get to see how their patients grow and thrive after they leave. But Zoey’s team did. 

“I remember how tiny she was and all the conversations that we had had about potential prognosis,” one member of her care team at St. Joseph Hospital reminisced, “and to see her walking through our front doors and jumping and excited is really heart-warming.” She added, “We’re a part of their journey forever. They remember us forever and the impact that we’ve had on them, and they’ve had just as much impact on us and we’re a home away from home for them.” 

Twenty-four weeks is widely considered the line of “viability” – a term that rose to public consciousness with the now-overturned Roe v. Wade Supreme Court decision. As medicine continues to develop, the legal term, “viability”, which has no basis in sound science and does not reflect the humanity of preborn babies, has become a moving target. Many more babies are surviving being born at 21-22 weeks than ever before. The 1973 Supreme Court decision said that the age of fetal viability “is usually placed at about seven months (28 weeks) but may occur earlier, even at 24 weeks.” In 2024, 28 weeks seems shockingly late, since babies like Zoey are surviving at earlier and earlier ages – even as young as 21 weeks.

But the attitudes of care teams for these babies – before and after birth – contributes a lot to helping the tiniest of babies survive and thrive. In fact, one recent study found better outcomes for babies born at 22 weeks when hospitals make an attempt to resuscitate every baby, rather than selectively resuscitating on physician or family preferences. Although the study was small, it found that when every baby is given proactive care, 53% survived as opposed to a 19% survival rate when reactively offering the same care to 22-week preemies. 

For Zoey, the support of those who love her and the devotion of her care team carried her through those difficult early days in the NICU. Her mother wouldn’t have it any other way. “She is my entire world and I have never been so proud of somebody in my entire life. She has overcome so incredibly much in her short five years.” 

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