sat . A Christmas Missed, a Family Holding On: Cancer Reshapes Holiday Traditions

This Christmas looks different for the Taylor family.
Today, they will miss gathering with loved ones on the Taylors’ side—an absence that weighs heavily in a season meant for togetherness. Cancer has a way of quietly dismantling plans, replacing long-held traditions with uncertainty, exhaustion, and hard decisions no family should have to make.
“I’m so thankful Julie made a way for Charlie to stay with her so she can go,” the family shared, a small but meaningful act of love that speaks volumes. In the midst of illness, every solution—no matter how modest—becomes a lifeline. It’s how families survive the days when nothing goes as planned.
Living with cancer means learning, over time, not to make plans at all. What’s scheduled today may be canceled tomorrow because of sickness, a sudden fever, unrelenting pain, or yet another medical appointment. The calendar fills, then empties, again and again. Holidays, birthdays, and family milestones are reshuffled—or quietly lost.
Still, there are moments of grace.

This week, Jason was able to take Will to see his Mimi and Poppie, a visit made even more precious knowing the family wouldn’t be able to gather today. Those brief moments—shared hugs, quiet conversations, familiar faces—become anchors in the storm. They don’t erase the pain, but they remind everyone why the fight matters.

Cancer doesn’t affect just one person. It ripples outward, touching parents, siblings, grandparents, and extended family—each carrying their own fear, fatigue, and heartbreak. The weight of it all can feel overwhelming. “Please pray for all the family as well,” the message reads. “This is just too much for everyone.”
And that truth is often overlooked.
Behind every diagnosis is an entire family learning how to breathe through the hard days, how to keep going when strength runs low. They learn to celebrate what they can, grieve what they can’t, and lean on faith when there are no easy answers.

This Christmas won’t look like the ones before it. There may be empty chairs, missed meals, and traditions left on pause. But there is also gratitude—for small mercies, for people who step in to help, for moments stolen back from illness, and for a God they continue to trust even when the road is unbearably heavy.
As many families gather today, this one asks for prayers—prayers for healing, for endurance, and for peace in the middle of a season reshaped by cancer.
Because sometimes, the greatest act of faith isn’t celebrating loudly—it’s simply holding on, together, through the quiet ache of a Christmas missed.